Should You Bad Mouth Your Ex In front of your Kid?

I just can’t resist writing about this as one of the Philippines’ famous celebrities is at it again. I won’t go into the details as it is already a shame that what she had done recently is once again front page news.  But an interesting question from all the assumptions that can be had is… Continue reading Should You Bad Mouth Your Ex In front of your Kid?

New Beginnings

There are two major changes in my work this year. First, we moved out of a place that was home to us for 27 years, my second home where I’ve spent 23 years of my working life. Second, I am finally leaving and exploring lots of other possibilities I could do in my own time,… Continue reading New Beginnings

Travelling Alone & Separation Anxiety

I am writing this as I am sitting on an 11 hour flight to Vancouver, en route to my destination Las Vegas to attend a business conference.  My clock says 10:25pm, Manila time, and even at this hour I couldn’t get to sleep.  Am so used to sleeping at 12mn back home. I have finished… Continue reading Travelling Alone & Separation Anxiety

Say It The Pablo Neruda Way

Pardon my posting of another poem so soon.  I am in a poetry mood. Not writing it myself, but revisiting old favorites.  This was for you, my first love, never sent as you broke my heart so badly 🙂 IF YOU FORGET ME  by Pablo Neruda I want you to know one thing.You know how… Continue reading Say It The Pablo Neruda Way

Life After Separation

I have been reading blogs about separation here in wordpress.  The first two ones are of women, while yesterday, I was able to look at two blogs written by single dads.  I could relate to most of the stories as I went through the same painful experiences back in 2004. Wow, that was 8 years… Continue reading Life After Separation

How Do You Stop Negative Thinking?

I was struggling much today. Physically, that is.  I felt dizzy and nauseous, and had difficulty focusing.  I am not the type who would easily pop a pill to get rid of sickness, and so it took some time before I finally gave in to a small dosage of paracetamol.  That, and a light snack,… Continue reading How Do You Stop Negative Thinking?

My Thank You List Today

It’s been another very busy day for me and I am just so ready to crash and re-charge for another full day tomorrow.  But I won’t let this day go without listing down some of the things am grateful for today. 1.  I am able to find time to condole with the family of an… Continue reading My Thank You List Today